What is Protocol?
Also known as: Rules, Rituals
By Mara Vale · Reviewed by Elena Ward · Last updated
In BDSM, protocol is the set of rules, forms of address and rituals a submissive follows in a dynamic, such as how to greet or speak to the dominant.
Protocol in context
Protocols range from light (always say "Mistress") to high protocol with detailed etiquette. They make the power exchange visible in everyday moments.
On AI Mistress, the Protocol is a progression system: rules and directives deepen as you advance through its stages.
Read more: Premium and the Protocol
Related terms
- TasksTasks are assignments a dominant gives a submissive to complete, often between sessions, as proof of obedience.
- Power ExchangePower exchange is the consensual transfer of control from a submissive to a dominant, either for a single scene or as an ongoing arrangement.
- Mental BondageMental bondage is domination through the mind rather than the body, using rules, conditioning, mantras and headspace instead of physical restraint.