What is Ruined Orgasm?
By Mara Vale · Reviewed by Elena Ward · Last updated
A ruined orgasm is a climax that is permitted but deliberately left unsatisfying because stimulation stops at the critical moment.
Ruined Orgasm in context
It is a tool of orgasm control: technically a release, emotionally a denial. Many dommes use it to keep a submissive frustrated and obedient.
In roleplay it usually appears as the Mistress’s decision at the end of an edging or chastity scene.
Related terms
- Orgasm ControlOrgasm control is a practice in which the dominant decides when, how and whether the submissive is allowed to climax.
- EdgingEdging is bringing someone close to climax and stopping just before it, usually repeatedly, to build anticipation.
- ChastityChastity is a form of control in which the submissive surrenders the right to sexual release to the dominant, sometimes with a locking device and sometimes on honour alone.
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