What is Bondage?
By Mara Vale · Reviewed by Elena Ward · Last updated
Bondage is the consensual restraint of a partner with rope, cuffs or other means, creating a sense of helplessness and surrender.
Bondage in context
The appeal is as much mental as physical: stillness, exposure and having to trust the person in control. Real bondage needs safety knowledge about circulation and quick release.
In text roleplay the restraint is narrated, so you can explore elaborate ties and predicaments with no physical risk.
Related terms
- ShibariShibari is a Japanese-inspired style of rope bondage that emphasises aesthetic patterns, the process of tying and the connection between the partners.
- BDSMBDSM is an umbrella term for Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, and Sadism and Masochism: consensual adult play built on power exchange and intense sensation.
- ForniphiliaForniphilia is an objectification kink in which a submissive serves as a piece of furniture, such as a footstool or table, for the dominant.
- TicklingTickling as a kink, also called knismolagnia, uses tickling and restraint to create helplessness and loss of control.
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